My Gentle Readers are well familiar with my pet phrase ; "We ACT according to the WAY we SEE Things", and that is as serviceable as "IT" can be but "IT" is NOT enough because we ACT according to the WAYS and MEANS of our upbringing [rearing] . We are SOCIALIZED by Our Parents and Society, which includes Education and the like, as well as whatever Religious Instruction that was imposed upon us . In a sense, we were CONSTRUCTED by Our Parents and THEIR "World View", as well as the Prevailing Social and Cultural Conditions of that Time . Here it is where "Rebellion" in our Teen-age Years, and later on in our College Years , 18-22, "Occurs" . During that time we were introduced to OTHER "Ways and Means" which then acted upon Us to re-mold Our Character, to Change Us, to suit OUR Psychological Genetics . We refer to this as Growth and Maturation .
I'm guessing that many of us heard this admonition form Our parents, "YOU CAN'T ACT THAT WAY IN PUBLIC". My Mother insisted, "What you do home, you do [when you go] Out [in public]. Here it is where you had-to ACT in a Socially Acceptable Manner, you didn't DARE "be yourself" because "Being Yourself" was Socially ---> UN- Acceptable . Again with the ACTING .
Shakespeare romanticized that "All the World is a STAGE" that WE are just POOR ACTORS on that Stage . I shudder to Think that Shakespeare had that kind of Influence on Our Parents and Society and Culture in general, but there "IT" is .
I think we gotta admit, there's something PHONY about being an Actor, we Value those that DO NOT ACT , Those that are GENUINE and TRUE blah-blah-blah .
What the fuck is going on ?