Wordsworth

                        We mustn't  forget  Wordsworth who gave us "Child is father to the Man" in his Poem titled, "My Heart Leaps Up" .   All the Experiences of Father Son Contact are the FOUNDATION upon which all other Experiences are subjugated .  Us gyze* learn how to Act by how are fathers 'Acted' --- such is the True Nature of Childhood itself .   Dr. Susan Forward in her book, Toxic Parents informs us that our parents voices can STILL be 'heard' "from beyond the grave" .   Many of us have Scars and Psychological Deformities that were the result of less-than-beneficial 'teachings' that were themselves the MAINSTAY of NATIONAL Socialization .   Here's one now :  "Spare the rod, spoil the child."